We are here to cry with you, cuss with you, call you on your shit, and help you actually change what isn’t working.
From Broken Trust to Feeling Like a Team Again Without Leaving Your Couch
Relationship Sessions That Get to the Root
Not Just Another Date Night and the Same Fight Next Week
Not your average approach for couples who love each other and are so f*cking tired of having the same fight.
For couples who love each other but are so tired of ending up here.
Your partner sighs and you instantly think, “Ohhh here we f*cking go.”
One text feels off and suddenly the whole night has a weird energy.
You get into bed, turn opposite directions, and both know something’s off but neither of you wants to be the one to start it.
You don’t want another good week. You want to actually feel like a team again.
Limited spots available as we only take on a certain amount of clients per month.
10+ years, hundreds of couples, and a whole lot of “Ohhh… now I get why we keep doing this.”
Here’s what a few of them had to say.
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“Within several months my perspective had completely changed and I was able to make progress and move past emotional obstacles that had been blocking my ability to proceed forward.”
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“I have been able to move past somethings that were holding me down for well over a decade. I feel lighter and am able to deal with setbacks easier than before working together. I have done both traditional talk sessions and deeper work…and there isn’t anyone I would recommend more!”
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“I have left every session...feeling like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I am ready to go enjoy the rest of my day with a clear head. I highly recommend Silver Birch to anyone struggling and in need of a little extra help!”
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“She has helped me overcome past fears and things from the past that were holding me back and has helped me mature into a more confident and well-rounded individual. She is always there to support me, but also challenge me and push me to be better…Through traditional talk sessions and deeper work she has helped me develop and learn to deal with things from my past and present.”
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"I look forward to my monthly sessions as I always come away from them with a renewed sense of my own value…insight and feedback has opened my eyes to my own thought patterns and how they impact my well-being.”
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“I began this work believing it was some voodoo magic that wouldn’t help at all. Now I find myself looking forward to every session… I have noticed progress in myself and my everyday life. I’m not sure where I would be without this experience and the time spent doing this work…I do know that looking back, I wish I had started down this long road sooner…”
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“…the first person I have worked with that has really challenged me to look deeper and really helped me form the new perspective that I need to move forward from things in my past. I would highly recommend her to anyone!”
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“Tangible results…Having been to many, many professionals, I can easily say she has been the best. I’m happy with the results I have seen and look forward to seeing what comes now!”
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"She laughs with me, lets me cry it out when the feelings get too big, and reminds me that a lot of this is normal. …I feel so much lighter after my sessions, and they're something I look forward to!"
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“…helped me navigate through some very difficult past experiences, while teaching me the skills to face what I had been through and come out stronger on the other side…. I never thought I would be able to find someone who I could talk to openly, all while not feeling judged or foolish… I would recommend her to anyone who is looking! The leap of faith that I took in working with Silver Birch… is one that I am so incredibly grateful that I took!”
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“…While sometimes challenging, I always appreciate the intention of being the architect of my own growth and progress. While initially, I sought 'answers' from her, now I am learning to seek within myself alongside a guide."
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“…The best part of this work has been that I’m now learning new skills to build a life that I’m proud of. I've been able to form deeper relationships and I've even been able to help others. I’m reaching a point that I didn’t realize was possible when I first started my sessions a year ago.”
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“…I appreciate how she is able to be fully supportive of me, hold me accountable in a direct way, provide an objective perspective to my concerns, and then being able to report back to her (and celebrate) when I follow through with difficult tasks.”
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“I didn't know where to even begin trying to work through the issues I was struggling with…I'm capable and confident that I can work through things and be my best self. The personal growth I've experienced since I started this work is truly amazing! I'm in a much better and much happier place in my life and I'm thankful for it every day.”
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“I am deeply grateful for the support given… the progress made I made in our short time together…was extremely helpful at a crucial time/within a crucial season of my life. I will always be grateful for that.”
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“I don’t quite know how she does it but I always feel calm, supported and capable of tackling really big goals.”
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“My wife and I did a two day couples session… to help us work through something that had occurred. This is obviously a very tough topic with a lot of emotions involved. After two days of very intense work my wife and I were in a much better place, and had a plan and vision of what we wanted to do….I cannot say enough great things…”
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“Exhausting. At times it was painful. And it was so worth it. I felt a deep connection that I hadn’t felt in years, a connection I didn’t think was possible to feel again. Intimacy returned. Communication improved. Surely a magical wand was involved. The retreat was tailored to US. To OUR marriage. Everything we did had a deep impact on our relationship. Not once did I feel like we were wasting time with an exercise. I never thought a retreat would be able to help us reconnect so much. And connect us in ways we hadn’t connected in years. But it did.”
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"This retreat may be the biggest single event that has saved my marriage, I would recommend having mini retreats every so often to do a refresher or clean out clutter that get moved off to the side but linger and affect the connections between my spouse and I…This experience was exhausting for both me and my spouse, yet at the same time it was very energetic for our relationship.”
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“…We came to the couples retreat with an issue that felt as if it might destroy us and we left feeling hopeful. We were able to imagine our future together. We know we have continued work to do and both of us desire to work with her individually and together in the future. We may not be all the way there yet, but we are on our way.”
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You know that moment when you think… “We cannot keep doing this like this”?
→ one little sigh from across the room and you’re already thinking, “Ohhh here we fucking go.”
→ you ask one normal question and somehow 12 minutes later you’re arguing about something that happened three years ago.
→ sitting next to each other on the couch, both on your phones, wondering when being together started feeling this lonely.
→ trying to have a date night and ending up talking about schedules, kids, bills, and who forgot to order toilet paper.
→ going to bed still annoyed, both facing opposite directions, and thinking, “Are we seriously doing this again?”
→ having one really good week and quietly wondering how long it’ll last before you’re right back here.
You’re allowed to want your relationship to feel better than this.
Okay… but what if your relationship actually started feeling different?
→ you look at your partner and think, “Oh yeah. I actually really like you.” More laughing in the kitchen, random touching again, way less feeling like roommates who discuss groceries.
→ a weird tone or one bad moment doesn’t turn into the whole freaking night being ruined. You can actually reset and move on.
→ you say what you need without rehearsing it for two hours first or waiting until you’re already pissed off to bring it up.
→ you start feeling like you’re on the same team again instead of two people managing kids, work, bills, and whose turn it is to unload the dishwasher.
→ trust starts feeling less fragile and the relationship feels like somewhere you can exhale again, not another thing you’re constantly trying to fix.
Limited spots available.
Meet Us.
Hey, it’s so nice to meet you.
If you’ve already opened 14 tabs trying to figure out who the hell you could actually talk to, we get it.
We’ll laugh with you, cuss with you, gently call you on your shit when needed, and help you make changes that actually show up in your real life, not just in a notebook you forget about by Tuesday.
Basically…we want you feeling lighter, more like yourself, and a whole lot more sure of what you want and how you want to show up.
If that sounds like where you want to be, let’s get to work.
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Amy Vredenburgh, LMFT
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Nicolette Ulstrom, LMFT
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Maranda Jacobsen, LPCC
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Samantha Miller LCSW, LICSW, LAC, LADC
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Gretchen Raymer, LAMFT, LADC